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Handfasting (; ) is a traditional marriage or betrothal practice in which a couple make a pledge by joining, clasping, or symbolically binding their hands.

The terminology and practice are associated with several medieval and early modern European contexts, including Ireland, Scotland, England, and Germanic-speaking regions. In Ireland and Scotland, modern usage often connects handfasting with Gaelic and Celtic-inspired marriage customs; in England, the term was historically used for betrothal or irregular marriage; and in later Scottish tradition it was associated with temporary or probationary marriage.

Etymology

The verb to handfast in the sense of "to formally promise, to make a contract" is recorded for Late Old English, especially in the context of a contract of marriage. The derived handfasting as for a ceremony of engagement or betrothal, is recorded in Early Modern English. The term was presumably loaned into English from Old Norse handfesta "to strike a bargain by joining hands"; there are also comparanda from the Ingvaeonic languages: Old Frisian hondfestinge and Middle Low German hantvestinge. The term is derived from the verb to handfast, used in Middle to Early Modern English for the making of a contract. In modern Dutch, "handvest" is the term for "pact" or "charter" (e.g., "Atlantisch handvest", "Handvest der Verenigde Naties"); cf. also the Italian loan word manifesto in English.

Ireland

In Ireland, handfasting is commonly associated in modern usage with Gaelic and Celtic-inspired wedding traditions, particularly the symbolic joining or binding of a couple's hands. In Irish, the ritual may be described as , a descriptive phrase based on and .

The evidence for medieval Irish marriage customs is broader than the modern hand-binding ceremony. Early Irish law treated marriage as a contractual and property relationship, with legal texts distinguishing several forms of according to the contributions of the spouses to marital property. Donnchadh Ó Corráin notes that early Irish legal sources divide principal marriages into categories including , , and .

In medieval Ireland, marriage practice existed within overlapping Gaelic legal custom and western Christian canon law. Art Cosgrove notes that medieval Ireland was divided between areas under English law and Gaelic Irish areas where older brehon law still operated. Under canon law, the matrimonial bond was created by the freely given consent of the two parties, preferably expressed publicly, but a public ceremony was not required for validity. Gaelic Irish marriage behaviour, however, was repeatedly criticised by medieval church reformers because older Irish legal custom allowed practices such as divorce, remarriage, and forms of union that did not fully conform to canon-law marriage.

Modern claims that handfasting was a fixed, universal, pre-Christian Irish wedding rite are difficult to verify from the surviving legal and ecclesiastical evidence. A more cautious interpretation is that modern Irish handfasting draws on older Gaelic concepts of contractual marriage, public consent, and symbolic binding, while the specific ribbon- or cord-binding ceremony is largely a modern ceremonial form.

Scotland

In Scotland, handfasting was used in several related but distinct senses, including formal betrothal, irregular marriage, and, in some later Highland and Hebridean accounts, a temporary or probationary union. The Scottish Gaelic term refers specifically to the latter idea of a marriage or union lasting for a year.

One recorded elite example occurred in February 1539, when Marie Pieris, a French lady-in-waiting to Mary of Guise, was married by handfasting to Lord Seton at Falkland Palace. The ceremony appears in the Scottish royal accounts through a payment to an apothecary for his work on the day of "Lord Seytounis handfasting".

Separate from such formal handfasting ceremonies, later sources describe a custom in parts of the Hebrides, especially Skye, in which a couple might live together for a year before entering a permanent marriage. Martin Martin, writing in the late seventeenth century, described an island custom by which a man could take a woman as his wife for a year and then either marry her permanently or return her to her parents. This type of account is commonly linked with the later idea of handfasting as a "year and a day" or trial marriage, although the extent, legal status, and antiquity of the custom remain disputed.

The issue also intersected with efforts to regulate Highland and Island society. The Statutes of Iona of 1609 and subsequent regulations sought to suppress practices regarded by authorities as disorderly or irregular, including marriages contracted for limited terms. The article currently states that those disregarding this regulation were to be punished "as fornicators"; this should remain, but should be placed after the Martin Martin/Skye material because it concerns the regulation of that alleged temporary-marriage practice rather than handfasting generally.

Scottish marriage law also recognised forms of irregular marriage for longer than English law did. Even where the Kirk disapproved of marriages formed by mutual consent and subsequent sexual intercourse, Scottish civil law could still recognise them. Public ceremony and witnesses reduced later disputes. Irregular marriage remained part of Scots law until reforms in the twentieth century, with the article currently noting the Marriage (Scotland) Act 1939 as the point at which handfasting was no longer recognised as a legal form of marriage.

Historians have disagreed over whether Scottish handfasting should be treated as evidence of a distinct institution of trial marriage. A. E. Anton argued in 1958 that the popular idea of Scottish handfasting as trial marriage rested heavily on late and romanticised sources, especially Thomas Pennant and Walter Scott. However, Martin Martin's seventeenth-century account predates Pennant by almost a century. A cautious summary is therefore that temporary unions were reported in some Highland and Island sources, but that their relationship to the broader legal and ceremonial practice of handfasting remains contested.

Medieval and Tudor England

The Fourth Lateran Council (1215) forbade clandestine marriage, and required marriages to be publicly announced in churches by priests. In the sixteenth century, the Council of Trent legislated more specific requirements, such as the presence of a priest and two witnesses, as well as promulgation of the marriage announcement thirty days prior to the ceremony. These laws did not extend to the regions affected by the Protestant Reformation. In England, clergy performed many clandestine marriages, such as so-called Fleet Marriage, which were held legally valid; and in Scotland, unsolemnised common-law marriage was still valid.

From about the 12th to the 17th century, "handfasting" in England was simply a term for "engagement to be married", or a ceremony held on the occasion of such a contract, usually about a month prior to a church wedding, at which the marrying couple formally declared that each accepted the other as spouse. Handfasting was legally binding: as soon as the couple made their vows to each other they were validly married. It was not a temporary arrangement. Just as with church weddings of the period, the union which handfasting created could only be dissolved by death. English legal authorities held that even if not followed by intercourse, handfasting was as binding as any vow taken in church before a priest.

During handfasting, the man and woman, in turn, would take the other by the right hand and declare aloud that they there and then accepted each other as husband and wife. The words might vary but traditionally consisted of a simple formula such as "I (Name) take thee (Name) to my wedded husband/wife, till death us depart, and thereto I plight thee my troth". a gold coin broken in half between the couple was also common. Other tokens recorded include gloves, a crimson ribbon tied in a knot, and even a silver toothpick. Ideally the couple were also supposed to refrain from intercourse until then. In some circumstances handfasting was open to abuse, with persons who had undergone "troth-plight" occasionally refusing to proceed to a church wedding, creating ambiguity about their former betrothed's marital status.

After the beginning of the 17th century, gradual changes in English law meant the presence of an officiating priest or magistrate became necessary for a marriage to be legal. Finally the 1753 Marriage Act, aimed at suppressing clandestine marriages by introducing more stringent conditions for validity, effectively ended the handfasting custom in England.

Neopaganism

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The term "handfasting" or "hand-fasting" was appropriated into modern Celtic neopaganism and Wicca for wedding ceremonies from at least the late 1960s, apparently first used in print by Hans Holzer.

Handfasting was mentioned in the 1980 Jim Morrison biography No One Here Gets Out Alive and again in the 1991 film The Doors, where a version of the real 1970 handfasting ceremony of Morrison and Patricia Kennealy was depicted (with the actual Kennealy-Morrison portraying the Celtic neopagan priestess). Evidence that the term "handfasting" had been re-interpreted as describing this ceremony specifically is found in the later 2000s, e.g. "handfasting—the blessed marriage rite in which the hands of you and your beloved are wrapped in ribbon as you 'tie the knot'."

By the 2010s, "handfasting ceremonies" were on offer by commercial wedding organizers and had mostly lost their neopagan association (apart from occasional claims that attributes the ceremony to the "ancient Celts"). The term "handfasting ribbon" appears from about 2005.

Notes

References

Stearns, Peter N. Encyclopedia of European Social History: from 1350 to 2000. Scribner, 2001.
Dolan, Frances E. Renaissance Quarterly, vol. 50, no. 2, 1997, pp. 653–655. JSTOR, www.jstor.org/stable/3039244.

External links

Historical handfasting