Gordon Wilson (25 September 1927 – 27 June 1995) was a draper in Enniskillen, County Fermanagh, who became known internationally as a peace campaigner during the Troubles in Northern Ireland.

On 8 November 1987 a bomb planted by the Provisional IRA exploded during Enniskillen's Remembrance Day parade, injuring Wilson and fatally injuring his daughter Marie, a nurse. In an emotional television interview with the BBC only hours after the bombing, Wilson described his final conversation with his dying daughter as they both lay buried in rubble and his hand held tightly to his daughter. His words "I bear no ill will. I bear no grudge" were reported worldwide, becoming among the most-remembered quotations from the Troubles. Whereas IRA attacks in Northern Ireland often resulted in reprisals by loyalists, Wilson's calls for forgiveness and reconciliation came to be called the Spirit of Enniskillen.

As a peace campaigner, Wilson held many meetings with members of Sinn Féin. He also met once with representatives of the Provisional IRA. Wilson sought to understand the reasons for the Remembrance Day bombing in Enniskillen. He also held talks with loyalist paramilitaries in an attempt to persuade them to abandon violence.

Bombing

On 8 November 1987, Enniskillen held its annual Remembrance Sunday ceremony to honour those who had served in the British Armed Forces. The Provisional IRA had planted a bomb in the town's Reading Rooms behind the cenotaph. It was timed to go off at 10:43am just before the ceremony was due to start. The explosion killed 11 people and injured 64; the last victim died after lying in a coma for 13 years.

The blast buried Wilson and his daughter, Marie, in rubble. Unable to move, he held her hand and comforted her as she lay dying, her last words were, "Daddy, I love you very much". Five minutes later rescuers pulled Wilson and his daughter out from under the collapsed building. Marie never regained consciousness and died later in hospital. Pivotal to the change in attitude towards this sort of attack was Wilson's reaction to the death of his daughter. The 60-year-old draper publicly forgave those who had planted the bomb and said he would pray for them. He also begged that no-one take revenge for Marie's death and pleaded with loyalists not to do so.

On Remembrance Day 1997, Sinn Féin leader Gerry Adams formally apologised for the bombing.

Peace campaigner

Mediator

William Ury wrote in his 1999 book The Third Side:

He contacted senior members of the IRA following the bombings which killed two boys in Warrington, England in 1993. Despite his begging them to stop, the IRA issued a statement offering "sincerest condolences and apologies" for his daughter's death. Wilson said his efforts had been "quite pointless"; he also noted that some Protestants never forgave him for meeting the IRA. The Trust closed in 2013 due to financial problems.

Senator

In 1993, Wilson was named by Albert Reynolds as a Taoiseach's nominee to the Seanad. He served until his death in 1995. Educated at Wesley College, Dublin, Wilson was a man of strong Christian faith and attended Enniskillen Methodist Church. He spent most of his adult life running the family drapery shop in High Street, Enniskillen, County Fermanagh.

Death

Wilson died of a heart attack in 1995, aged 67, just a few months after the death of his son, Peter, in a road accident. His wife, Joan Wilson, died on 31 March 2023.

Legacy

People who had met Wilson in the course of his peace work have described him as one of the most inspiring and caring men they had ever met.

Wesley College Dublin, where Wilson went to school as a teenager, renamed their library to the Gordon Wilson Library after his death. His widow was present at the ceremony.

References

  • The day I lost my daughter - Gordon Wilson's wife, Joan, mother of the youngest victim of the 1987 Enniskillen bombing, recalls the day of the IRA attack (Episode 2: 10 Days of Terror is broadcast in April 2008 on BBC Two).
  • The Spirit Of Enniskillen Trust